I have an 84 300TD w/165K and have developed this same problem. For me it happens when shifting from Park to Drive or Reverse. I had a leak in the transmission cooler line on the driver's side. After replacing this it's a little smoother, but still not the way it used to be. Any ideas?
1984 300TD Turbo 156Kmi
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