Been there, done that, got the proclamation.

To people who look for homoeroticism, most male-male interactions are, by definition, homoerotic. I am no longer certain the term has concrete meaning. If it ever did. In my own experience I did not find any of the horseplay sexually exciting. It was mostly silly and occasionally mildly degrading, like other male rites of passage in which I have been a participant. The outcome is predictable: You can't wait to inflict the humiliation on some other innocent.

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