Yah i just disconnected the modulator to my alarm and it struck my that my alarm was not a factory alarm. Well to my knowledge "Chapman" alarm is after market. Anyways some one did the wiring wrong and bypassed the remote control that was suppose to come with it and connected the alarm to the stereo. I found this all out because of another person with a similar problem at another forum.
Thx for the help.
and yes the alarm is USELESS!!!