Having been involved in the adoption process quite a bit, some adoptive parents are advised to go out of the country because quite frankly of the future complications of the biological parents change of heart and or circumstances and the possibility that the child wants to reunite at some stage. State adoption laws are very clear on the subject regarding the bio parents but do not speak to hampering the child's efforts at all. The results of such reunions whether with or without the consent of the adoptive parents are more often than not, devastating for every one involved.