Fixed it today. Hired a guy to come out and check it out (dad had to have parts truck back tuesday morn), took him 45 min to find the prob, 15 to fix it, i had put both of the small wires on the same post on the starter. He did some rigging so now it starts. I'll take a pic and show what he did, he was talking in a very "good ol' boy" terms so i didnt fully understand what he was saying, he made a fuseable link to the batery down to the starter with one of small wires, but it sounds kind of what like what diesel911 was talking about with one of the small wires going to the big terminal and back up to the junction box. Should i rerout it, fromt the big post on the starter to the junction box instead of from the battery.

Thanks to everyone that gave me advice, I learned a whole whole lot and now feel pretty damn confident that I can fix anything.

So once again thanks for all the wonderful help, I owe yall a beer (diesell 911 i owe you a keg)