Hello Suginami, why must your mother-in-law wait 90 days to receive the ashes?

I'd also be interested in knowing why Buddhism is always connected with death and Shinto is usually associated with birth and positive things.

I'm sure you'll make the most of your remaining time in Japan. All the best to you and your family.

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Fine words and an insinuating appearance are seldom associated with true virtue. ---Confucius