Sorry, can't help on the valve question but in my opinion, your ride would not be harsh if you are riding on the springs. It would be bouncy but not harsh. I suspect your valve is not working correctly and maximizing our height making the system think you have a heavy load and harshening the ride. This is speculation on my part because my bad ride was caused by worn accumulators.

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