Thanks for the pixs pmari, I now know I didn't have the right things. good thing I hesitated, huh? I do think maybe the big one was correct, just I have a wingnut on it instead of that cute hexigon thingy. But I think I was way off (except for size) on the little one.

I'm gonna go back and look again now that I know better.

Again, thanks to EVERYONE, I am gonna get those gloves too because I want to start taking care of her, after all, no one's gonna love her like I will (albeit, I know I haven't much treated her as such - but I thought she was indestructible and invincible until all this).