Update - We checked and its getting fire to the plug wires. I dont know if he removed the plugs to see if they were gassy or not... I will check.

Nope, dont have a fuel pump jumper or any wire... maybe I can find some.

edit - I have discovered that this is actually the A/C relay by another forum and the poster below - thank you.
Anyway, is this the fuel pump relay? I just removed it and took a pic of it. (It was the one closest to the brake booster). Appears its been tested/replaced before... is there any way to test these?

To recap... we have fire to the plugs, fuel pump is "hissing" when switch is on... car will "try" to start, but will not. Maybe at this point replace the fuel filter and see if thats any help?

Thanks once again!