When you "flash" the high beams you are should be pulling toward you, if you push the stalk away from you the high beams should be "on." Regardless of 'if the fogs are on' and only pushing the stalk away or toward you works, the stalk is probably bad. However, don't be confused with the Fogs being on...if the fogs are on then you flash or turn the high beams on the fogs are shut off while your in high beam mode...in which case you might mistake the highs as working when your just seeing your normal lights in which case a relay/fuse might be bad on the Fogs. Confused yet? Sorry.