well I just confirmed it. The passenger side of my transmission in caked with motor oil from the turbo leaking it through my broken exhaust flex pipe (my car has issues, but worth saving none the less). The whole side is black except for a small bit below the large circular thing in the rear. being that trans fluid is a detergent, it made sense that this was the source of the leak. I stuffed a rag up there between that spot and the chassis and viola!! I drove about 2 miles and no more leak!!!

Thanks to everyone who helped me track this thing down. Now, is there any way to fix this?