Well what do you know - you can do this! Called the dealer today and the parts department quoted $268.94. The mirror is black - which is fine for me since my interior is black. In comparison, the after market units run between $150 to $200 (with temp & direction), so $268 doesn't sound nearly as bad as I expected.
Has anybody ever installed one of these? In one of the posts (I think it was from Denmark???) it sounded like you connect two wires and botta-bing-botta-boom.
Anyway, before I pull the car apart and realize I did something really bad (ie. expensive), any input or warnings would appreciated. And thank you myarmar.