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Old 09-28-2013, 12:43 AM
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Originally Posted by Mike D View Post
Here's some advice from an old bar hound. "Don't **** where you eat".

If you enjoy the bar, avoid any personal entanglements. It NEVER turns out well. If you and the lady hit it off then that bar is no longer a refuge 'cause now it's "OUR" place, and not "your" place. If you don't hit it off then the bar becomes a divided camp.
To the OP:
And there are no other bars in a 10-mile radius of this one? You like her, go out with her. You don't like her, ignore her.

You're not her gynecologist and she's not your shrink. You're just her boss's occasional customer -- or hers, if she happens to own the place. As long as you're not paying her for drinks right after boinking her, even such a professional relationship is irrelevant.

Man up, do whatever you want, and stop asking your "friends" like a high-school girl thinking about a prom date.
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