So I'll bump this thread with an update to my car.
I had a local exhaust shop make a new system for my car. I had a Thrush welded muffler installed, with no resinator. 350s do not have a cat. This replaced something I had put on in a time crunch... a cheepie muffler from Auzone that restricted to probably 1 1/4" inside.
Thrush 17656 Welded Muffler on a Mercedes 350SDL Turbo Diesel - YouTube
Overall I'm thrilled. It's not loud, yet audible. If you listen close you can hear the turbo
You should have seen all the soot that blew out of the tailpipe the first time I took off
I'm going to cut the crappy muffler apart and see how loaded up it is inside.
-J