FJ is my local dealer too, try a different service writer! I have been doing business with them since they were Jim Selmons and I know that all advisors are NOT the same. Some are definitely more customer service oriented and will fight to make it right for you.
Keep us posted, my coolant system is giving me trouble after my first A service at 2years and 11K miles. I'll back you up on a brake flush and coolant flush with the service mangers at FJ.
Ed "Don't Benz's just feel better..."
2000 ML430 Skyview "The Mel"
2000 CLK430 Cab "The Cab"
85 300D Turbo "The Diesel"
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