Let me get this straight she in Poland? I love you can't control the rigors of love but you can control reality. You need to do one of two things move to Poland or get on with your life.

One of my ex-girlfriend's mother asked me if I loved someone before her daughter, when I answered yes she said then you will love again.....she was right.

Don't sweat it in the mean time put the TLJ thread in your favorites.