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Originally posted by G-Benz
Your perfect mate is probably somewhere, wondering if she will never meet someone like you...one day, you shall meet!
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Well put!
Funny thing is, alot of the time the"perfect mate" may not be exactly what you think she should be. The girl I was dating that I referred to earlier was what I considerd perfect. We shared alot of interests, and agreed on a lot about life. She was gorgeous, and was just what every mother would like to have their son bring home to "meet the parents". I could go on and on about her. I still have some feelings for her 25 years later.
The girl I married wasn't quite all that. But I can see now that it's more her personality traits that have made her a good companion, more than the common interests that we could have shared. She has been eternally patient with me and my ways, and my wierd hobbies. She's been a great mother to my childeren. I could go on and on about her too.
I guess my point is, the best thing isn't always what you think it should be. When my wife and I met, there was just that "something" that clicked. It just felt right. And I really knew nothing about her.