In coaching, one of the important things we try to teach our kids is how to win, but more important, how to lose. It's a tough lesson to teach, especially to a kid or a team which is used to winning a lot. I don't know a single competitive person who doesn't feel at least a little hurt when they don't win.

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You don't need a weatherman to know which way the wind blows - Robert A. Zimmerman