thanks for all the responses. i have changed the flex disc and the tranny mount.
this definately resolved most of the vibration problems.
2) HESITATION UNDER LOAD.
i have replaced the fuel filter..... no change.
checked fuel pressures...all o.k
(not sure how to check for flow..volume) i guess i have to bridge fuel pump somehow??????
the car still hesitates under full acceleration or when kicking down hard...
how do i check "for self adaptation and air mass for mass flow sensor" do i need special equipment or can i do the check???
your responses are appreciated and it is taking "baby steps" but the car is getting better.....thanks