I know I am the "young'n" of the group here, and I totally understand what sflori has is much deeper than anything I currently have/had at my young age of 17 years.

It is the truth, most girls I've gone on dates with/gone out with indeed to like honesty. Unfortunately, my honesty always seems to come off as brutal with some girls.

The current "object of my affection" pulled the biggest a-hole move on me, lying to get out of going on a date with me, even when I told her all she had to tell me was the truth. So I basically stopped talking to her about anything deeper than a friendship for...4-6 weeks, and now she asks me to hang out! :p :p :p Hahaha...."Sorry..I don't think I would be comfortable doing that, I don't want to have feelings for you again" Which is the truth. And she gets all mad about my little "rejection" and gets all pissy. Woopsies...at least I don't lie rolleyes: Well, now I know she likes me, what I have thought for a long time, and the fact we put up with one another's crap in school/out of for like about half a year kind of demonstrates this ah well.

Back to you: at least in my pitiful experience, I have found that being 100% truthful either is a really good thing (totally open, totally telling how you feel) and some ladies appreciate this very much. On the other hand, some like to hear what sounds good, even though they say they want the truth. And when you tell them the truth, how you feel, what you think, they get really pissed and agitated. Unfortunately, my personality is black and white. Yes or no. It's always truthful, but not exactly...umm..."flexible" when it comes to the ladies. The current object of my affection is coming to appreciate my honesty (which she formerly saw as cold, uncaring, etc)

So walk a fine line. Hopefully you are more flexible than me. I always tell them the truth, tell them what's on my mind, and they either are happy about me being truthful, or they flip out cause I am..."mean, cold, unloving" Walk a fine line, and fib when it's convenient/necessary.

PS. When she asks you how a pair of hideous shoes look don't respond with "Uhh...they're made of wood....."

BAD MOVE! :p: