check your fuel pressure on the warm start easiest way is to bypass the fuel pump relay if this fixes your problem you may have a bad fuel pressure regulator. This can also be caused by a vapour lock.
2005 320 CDI
2006.5 VW Jetta TDI
1991 560SEL (179000 Sold)
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