I checked all the glow plugs there all fine. The reason i know the relay crapped out is because i took it apart and the circuit board is all burnt and melted. Thanks for the tips guys keep em comin. Im gonna be gettin a lot of used parts now thats to that carparts website i didnt know they delt with used parts too Thanks guys.

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1982 300D Turbo (Mom's)
1993 BMW 525I (Dad's)
2001 Vw Golf (Brothers)
2002 Nissan Ser SpecV (Im the Black sheep lol)