I have the exact same problem. Seems to be worse for me with thicker oil (I'm now using 10w40). I've tried synthetic, didn't seem to change much. I have flushed the engine prior to the last few oil changes and this has appeared to help but hasn't solved the problem. Looks like something we can figure out together with the help of the forum. I'll keep posting to your thread as I learn more.

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