There r 3 terminals in the black box on the right fender. They r in line perpendicular to the battery.

U want to jump the furtherest 2 from the battery. So naming them 1,2,3 starting from the battery side, U jump 2 & 3.

Check for lateral play on ur neutral safety ( Is there any play - door to door as oppose to front to back).

Also check the 2 bushings on the linkage.