The email that he sent me privately, was the most heinous, crass and lewid mail I've ever received regardless of whether it was email, snail mail or what. It used the F word alot and involved him doing it with my pathetic wife while I watched. I've never seen anything like it. It woould probably scare my wife to death if she read it.
As far as I'm concerned, anyone who would send something like this to any other human being, whether they are provoked or not, should be watched closely. I still have an unedited copy of the email if you want to see what he can really be like.
Thanks for your comments and have a great day,