I would invite people here (Kansas City, MO), but not too many, and definitely no more attorneys. I think Kansas City has a good mix of things in a smaller city. Good quality of life, low stress, easy living, access to quality cultural experiences and institutions, cool people, great restaraunts, and four seasons.

Some cities require you to adopt the new hobby called "living in ____". I allways end up in long conversations with people from Chicago, for instance, about how what I call the administrative side of life takes up way too much of the life part, but in other words. I never want to live in a big city again, even though the women were way cooler as I remember. Of course, I was probably way cooler then, too!