If you go back and read your first post, all options were given.
You are now surprised he is a flake?
If you want to play games take Daves way. Will it get you any money. No .
And the fact that you are a woman. This guy would screw his own mother and she is a woman. And any guy he can. Judge him by his actions.
This is all a matter of how much time you want to waste. The money is gone. But you can spend more proving your right.