sorry to hear of the accident. A Dodge RAM no less!
Re the car: Sounds as though no real frame damage to the car. Lots of 'upper' real estate (no pun intended!) damage but it should fix OK.
Hope you wife is ok and definitely go to the saw-bones and demand an MRI. Xrays do not see anything but broken bones!
Regards . . . . JimF
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