The hell with the "bar" thing and more power to wrenching!

You're already married,so hanging out in a bar is simply a waste of time that inevitably make you "window shop" all the pretty young trim you imagine you could have,not at all conducive toward a secure relationship.

You are doing something constructive and rewarding, perhaps this crisis of conscience is related to the overtly sexual atmosphere inherent in bars you may feel a twinge of guilt over,men being men.

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