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Now you guys have me on a rant. in the last several years the friends of my kids who haven't even seen my kids in years, stop by my shop and thank me and Vickie for giving them such good advice. Sometimes even their parents tell me the same thing.
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They generally carrying the bullying into adulthood. If I were you, I would avoid the kid. Spend your time trying to help people without parents. This kid obviously has deficiencies best addressed by his parents. |
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I can't believe all this talk of "beating" children. I am all for discipline, but c'mon guys...slapping in the face.....sent to the basement for days....there are better ways to change behavior that don't involve the emotional scarring that you are suggesting. So, it's aggressive behavior we are trying to reduce and we will do that by more intense forms of aggression??? See my point?
There are such things as ODD, intermittent explosive disorder, etc. which can cause aggression, and can be treated both medically and behaviorally. Setting limits and boundaries does not require physical punishment to be administered.
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Go home man, you are talking about the extremes in diciplinig your children. That's why parents are afraid to dicipline their children, because of being arrested, and kids these days know that.
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When I started taking heart meds I had Intermittent Explosive Disorder so I suppose it Depends.
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I spank my kids when needed...and they still love me. More than that, they respect me as their dad and as an authority figure.
I am now over 1600 miles away from them and my ex STILL calls me to talk to the kids when the act out against her. all I generally have to do is remind them of the las ttime they were spanked, and why it happened. After that, they start acting right. The fear of the punishment will keep most anyone on the straight and narrow. You don't drink and drive because you know what will happen, right?
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maybe i missed it, but did he ever claim he was an expert? second, just b/c you dont believe in corporal punishment, is it right for you to get personal? you have no idea what/why he got divorced, why he's 1600 miles away, etc. perhaps hes in the military and things did not work out? i dont know...and neither do you. |
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Big time fault of parents here, have seen it happen once too often. Too late for violence or harsh talk, what he needs to to be made aware of his options and priorities, sort of reward and priviledges policy. If you misbehave, then you loose your priviledges. If that don't work out, time for some shock therapy for both kid and parents.
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has nothing to do with my "ideas", just happens to be the law. (see, nothing personal about it )
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