What a lesson in communication skills.

I just watched a movie "The Charge of the Light Brigade." Total fantasy.

The real story was a tragedy. The Russians were removing cannons from a lightly defended flank portion of the battlefield over a hilltop and the British commander ordered the light brigade to "capture the guns."

When the order reached the light brigade, the only guns in site were in the middle of the Russian main line, so 600 some odd calvary charged a massive defensive position and against all odds managed to kill an amazing number of Russians and return a large portion of the attacking force.

The lesson to be learned is to tell the other person exactly what you mean with no chance of misunderstanding. I think the best person I ever dealt with was a book store supervisor in Ithaca, NY. When she gave directions, she would say "repeat back to me in your words what I just told you."

It seems to me about half of the piss fights on this board are due to people being on different wavelengths, not due to real disagreements. Before you flame someone, try to see it from their viewpoint.

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1983 300SD "Guderian"
1987 MR2
2015 Camry
2015 Chevy Spark
2006 Hyundai Tucson

Despite all appearances, most differences on this board are substantial and not just misunderstandings. Did I get it right?

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1977 300d 70k--sold 08
1985 300TD 185k+
1984 307d 126k--sold 8/03
1985 409d 65k--sold 06
1984 300SD 315k--daughter's car
1979 300SD 122k--sold 2/11
1999 Fuso FG Expedition Camper
1993 GMC Sierra 6.5 TD 4x4
1982 Bluebird Wanderlodge CAT 3208--Sold 2/13

Yes. And you pointed out the other half: people who look for trouble.

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1983 300SD "Guderian"
1987 MR2
2015 Camry
2015 Chevy Spark
2006 Hyundai Tucson

Arguing with someone about politics who is vastly different from yourself is like arguing with a drunk. You won't change their postition so why make a fuss.

Often I find people arguing with my position and when examined we actually agree.

I try to keep cordial with nearly everybody because when it comes to cars we really mostly agree around here.

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[SIGPIC] Diesel loving autocrossing grandpa Architect. 08 Dodge 3/4 ton with Cummins & six speed; I have had about 35 benzes. I have a 39 Studebaker Coupe Express pickup in which I have had installed a 617 turbo and a five speed manual.[SIGPIC]

..I also have a 427 Cobra replica with an aluminum chassis.