This thread is in continuation from the "Single or married" thread...


So for all you married folks, where did you meet her? How did you meet her? Any stories or pickup lines that help you find "THE ONE"?

she was a banker, I asked to write her phone number on a deposit slip she did and the rest is history.

I tricked her into marrying me.

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She was a second year law school student who had spilled her lunch tray and had food all over the floor and herself. I was a second year business school student who went around the corner and took off my t-shirt (I had a sweatshirt over it) and gave to her to wear to cover the salad dressing, juice, etc. And I walked her back to her apartment, waited for her to change and bought her lunch (and thus cutting a class). The rest is obvious.

Through an escort service...

Too fast and too often...

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1998 E320 Blk\Blk
1995 BMW 530i (bad engine) sold
1989 BMW 535i sold after 170,000 fun miles
1996 Lincoln Town Car (6 passenger land barge, still smooth and quiet at 130,000 miles, make me an offer!)

That's two questions, totally un-related in my world.

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"If you don't know where you are going, any road will get you there". Lewis Carrol

Marrage should run in 20 year periods. After that time you should decide if you want to renew your vows, or call it quits. Save money and peace of mind. People change with time. Marrage can be a real life delema. Would I do it over? I doubt it, not for forty years. And I doubt I would keep my MB that many years. Things change.

20 years?? Cripes, I'd've changed 20 times over!!

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1984 300D Turbo - 4-speed manual conversion, mid-level resto

1983 300D - parts car

1979 300TD Auto - Parts car.

1985 300D Auto - Wrecked/Parts.


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"If you don't know where you are going, any road will get you there". Lewis Carrol

How did you pull off the dating? Most girls wont date "friends". Some excuse like they know you too well, and it feels weird, etc.

to answer your second question, there is nothing really "going on". Its just that I am 23, my friends are a little older than me. It seems like everybody is engaged or married and i am still a bachelor.

I will run into people i went to high school with and they are married with 2 kids, and I am like damn am I missing something here?? THey are also financially in debt as well and not driving Jags, benz, porsche, etc either...

Another thing I noticed is when dating girls that are like 25 (give or take a few years), they are into more of a marriage mind instead of a for fun mind. So just general observations and wanting to see what you more expereinced guys think. When in doubt, ask

TomJ: You're a real sport. I'm an old man (63) and of course drive a MB sedan. Used to race, drive sports car etc. Just keep in mind that a Benz is not a sports, race or hot rod. Used properly, they run forever and need little or no maintenance. Thats a good thing.

I swear I saw that in a movie.

Well, one thing I noticed about "female friends" are they get bothered when you talk about another girl.

This is weird i think. Lets say your at the mall with your friend and you see another girl that looks good and check her out or make a comment, they get offended. Why? arent we just friends?

Tkamiya or any other guys out there have noticed this situation?

MikeMover fantasy moment.....ahhhhh.

B

Yes, and I've used it to my advantage on numerous occasions.

Observe; She just wants to be "friends". OK, you can dig that. You come back from a "friend date" and want to screw her brains out....., whoops...., this is a family forum. I mean, you feel.... "amorous".

When she says no "because it would ruin our friendship", you then say, "I completely understand and care for you very much and want to keep you as a friend. But I have certain desires and am about to explode with sexual energy and really hate that I tried to use you in that way. I will just go out to a bar on the way home and pick up someone to have sex with and release this tension. I don't want to lose your friendship and am willing to do this to keep from ruining it."

One of three things happens: One, she drops you right there (which means it's "OK" for her to be "un-attached", but not vice versa - lose the b**ch), or two, she will NOT LET YOU LEAVE and make sure you get the tension release you needed (and we all agree she is responsible for in the first place), or three, the one who truly IS your friend and no more, says "OK, have fun and don't catch anything."

Of course, then there was one lady in SLC who stopped me, ran to the phone and called a girlfriend of hers to come over to sleep with me. Sometimes....., just when you think you know them....., you find out they are as much of a mystery as they were to Adam.

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1984 300D Turbo - 4-speed manual conversion, mid-level resto

1983 300D - parts car

1979 300TD Auto - Parts car.

1985 300D Auto - Wrecked/Parts.


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"If you don't know where you are going, any road will get you there". Lewis Carrol