Update
 

Well, replaced the tie rods, intermediate rod, steering damper, and sway bar bushings this weekend. Tie rods were the noise source, at least the major contributor, and the looseness I felt. The front end feels tight and stable now, and there is no more noises when turning sharply like before.

Mostly, the rest was "PM", because the parts weren't shot, but they were worn, and I had new ones so while I was in the neighborhood.....

Lower left front ball joint did grumble a little when I turned the knuckle to install the tie rod, but it is still tight and is making no noise or clunks while driving, so I guess it is probably not long from replacement but is OK for now.

sbourg - you were right buddy - idler arm was rock solid, no need to rebuild it.