Both SEM sprays (there is a "old" and a "new"; one's got more flex) are available here:
http://www.vinylpro.com/
I use paint thinner or acetone or alcohol as a prep AFTER TESTING A NON-VISIBLE AREA of the part. Not recommending this, just telling what I've done. Acetone dissolves a lot of the materials we want to color!!!
The carpet dye on this site (different than the SEM aerosol) worked ONLY for touch-up; not a particularly great product.
The 1980's Mercedes MB Tex grey is #15393 for inquiring minds.
Wrecker's yards love SEM because they always, somehow, manage to have YOUR color "in stock" (at a slight premium, of course).