Do girls like guys who are jerks? - PeachParts Mercedes-Benz Forum

Hatterasguy · #1 11-16-2006, 02:10 PM

Being the nice guy isn't working for me, and it seems some hot girls get turned on by "bad boys".

Maybe I need to be more of a jerk? IE insted of saying, so do you want to do anything tonight? COME OVER NOW AND BANG ME B***.

Does this actualy work?

GermanStar · #2 11-16-2006, 02:14 PM

Depends on where you're hangin'. Do girls like jerks? Depends on what you mean by a jerk, I suppose. Girls like challenges, just like we do. Put yourself out there, go for a good time and don't think about anything else. If you come across as easily conquered (emotionally in particular), you're toast with any girl worth her salt. Be fun, and be aloof -- let them in physically, but not emotionally.

TX76513 · #3 11-16-2006, 02:28 PM

Hypothesis: Most women prefer jerks
Experiment Procedure:
1. Become a jerk.
2. Try to get women.
3. Observe results.

WARNING: Be prepared to pick up teeth from ground

John Doe · #4 11-16-2006, 02:30 PM

Sounds like a lack of playing time. Spend more time trying to pick up women than here and you will find the answer, grasshopper. My experience is that women like confident types that are romantic, btw

#5 11-16-2006, 02:47 PM

Most of the women I'm interested in usually fall for type-A personalities. I'm curious to see if this changes as we all get older-perhaps they'll want something more...house-trained for marrige?

I got nowhere with women untill I became confidant and assertive. While you might consider them a 'jerk' the girl might think of them as something very different...

cheers,
dan r.

Emmerich · #6 11-16-2006, 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Hatterasguy

Being the nice guy isn't working for me, and it seems some hot girls get turned on by "bad boys".

Maybe I need to be more of a jerk? IE insted of saying, so do you want to do anything tonight? COME OVER NOW AND BANG ME B***.

Does this actualy work?

Old saying : "treat them like dirt and they stick like mud"

TheDon · #7 11-16-2006, 03:08 PM

im the nicest guy ever and yet i get nothing.. i have yet to give up .. partly due to the fact most of the girls are dumbasses anyways.. pfft

iceman3876 · #8 11-16-2006, 03:42 PM

Catching a woman is like being in a room and trying to catch a falling feather. The more you try to catch the feather the harder it is to catch it....and like the waiting hand...just allow the feather to fall into the hand...much like a Venus fly trap...Snap! Then treat'em like what best fits your personality...and when they want to marry....RUN like Forrest Gump

diametricalbenz · #9 11-16-2006, 03:59 PM

Acting like a jerk is probably not going to yield someone with the personalty you're looking for. It's a confidence/security issue for them.

Unleashed · #10 11-16-2006, 04:03 PM

The jerks always win with the women in the early years, then the women realise it's not worth it and come crawling back to us - the decent guys.
My "high school sweet heart", if you will, was one of my best friends.
Throughout our years of friendship, she knew exactly how I felt, but would always push me away when I made it clear. Then she started seeing this pond life scum trailer trash guy. She was with him for 2 years, in which they split up 3 times, all of them because he was cheating her. I would have broken his legs on a whim, had she asked me, but every time she would crawl back to him and they would get back together.
Then, a couple of years later I found out she always felt exactly the same way about me, even though she had always denied it to my face. That really messed things up.
I wish I could say that we're together now - we're not - but I know that the guy she's in a long term relationship with now is a good bloke who will treat her as well as I would have.
What I'm saying is don't change yourself, don't let yourself become one of them. Keep as you are, and soon enough you'll stumble across someone who's most likely been hurt in the past, who just wants a decent, good person. It's the same story over, and over again, and it's always the same.

MattBelliveau · #11 11-16-2006, 04:28 PM

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Originally Posted by iceman3876

Catching a woman is like being in a room and trying to catch a falling feather. The more you try to catch the feather the harder it is to catch it....and like the waiting hand...just allow the feather to fall into the hand...much like a Venus fly trap...Snap! Then treat'em like what best fits your personality...and when they want to marry....RUN like Forrest Gump

Quite possibly the most meaningful thing I've heard this millenium!