So are there any good girls left out there. - PeachParts Mercedes-Benz Forum

nh500sl · #1 12-19-2007, 04:10 AM

Just can't belive that girls that I have dealt with this year. I really know I would rather be alone then deal with a gold digging dishonest women who scames everything she can, I'm just really disapointed that is what the world is coming to. A couple that I'm friends with say that they have a freind who is about my age and we would be perfect, but even so, we live on opposite sides of the country, so that would be less the ideal, and I don't see myself moving in the near future, so I don't even know if this tree is worth barking up. It's really not a huge issue I guess but like cars, electornics and people things are becoming more and more inadequatly built, and we are suffering. Wish I could go back to the day that My SL was new, maybe things were better then, Oh, I was not born yet...lol. Anyway late night sleepless post, hope it makes some sense. Maybe I will go for a drive tomorrow night.

diametricalbenz · #2 12-19-2007, 05:07 AM

You're not that old....are you? Relax you'll find somoene when you least expect it but you do have to assess what kind of girl you're after and be realistic about it at the same time.

Stoneseller · #3 12-19-2007, 07:15 AM

Be careful that you don't try to hard. The right one is out there, she just has not yet found you. IMO, the good women, the ones worth committing the rest of your life to, are few & far between, as you seem to be aware.
Be a responsible, fair, reasonable, and maybe even successful man, and the right woman will find you

Carleton Hughes · #4 12-19-2007, 07:32 AM

Pardon me Sport,but you're too Goddam fearful of women in general and rejection in particular.Every sentence is a cri de couer of insecurity.

NOT that there's much amiss with that,sensitive,inexperienced fellows do make the best and most loyal husbands,the problem lies with finding a gal who won't mistake kindness for weakness.

You may have to reassess your standards of female attraction since the kind of gal you seek will rarely display her charms openly,but will more than compensate that with more solid,lasting values,just my tuppenceworth from reading all your posts,you're not cut out to be a player.

Dee8go · #5 12-19-2007, 08:20 AM

In answer to youe initial question, though, no. I got the last good one, but I;m sure you can find someone who'll do . . .

TX76513 · #6 12-19-2007, 08:21 AM

Don't look for roses in the berry patch.

Jim B. · #7 12-19-2007, 08:38 AM

"Yes, there are good ones out there, but they are all married - to the good men"

j/k

Just forget about it, and go about your life, but be OPEN to meeting new people, don't try too hard (in bars the only thing you'd have in common is that you both drink) keep a positive attitude and your sense of humor, and chances are the next one that comes along, and she will, probably will happen when you are least prepared, or even thinking about it,and it will be a pretty pleasant surprise for you when it occurs.

You should be just fine

Mistress · #8 12-19-2007, 10:01 AM

Depends on what your definition of good is.

TX76513 · #9 12-19-2007, 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Mistress

Depends on what your definition of good is.

Good girls go to heaven, bad girls go everywhere

John Doe · #10 12-19-2007, 10:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Carleton Hughes

Pardon me Sport,but you're too Goddam fearful of women in general and rejection in particular.Every sentence is a cri de couer of insecurity.

NOT that there's much amiss with that,sensitive,inexperienced fellows do make the best and most loyal husbands,the problem lies with finding a gal who won't mistake kindness for weakness.

You may have to reassess your standards of female attraction since the kind of gal you seek will rarely display her charms openly,but will more than compensate that with more solid,lasting values,just my tuppenceworth from reading all your posts,you're not cut out to be a player.

Ditto what he said. You just don't sound cut out for it. Why spend so much time on something that makes you sound so morose? If you have the means, I would suggest some extended travel to gain experience if you want to chase and enjoy women. A hooker or two may help--don't know about availability in your area. But I can tell you this--the snivveling routine wouldn't attract any woman I know of to a man.

John Doe · #11 12-19-2007, 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Dee8go

In answer to youe initial question, though, no. I got the last good one, . . .

You ought to get dope-slapped for being that much of a kiss ass

G-Benz · #12 12-19-2007, 10:27 AM

Where do you meet these women? That may be the answer...or the problem.

Had a secretary years ago that would have one bad relationship after another...all guys she met in bars...DUH!!!

Friends, while their motives are admirable, can't match you up any better than the club and bar scene.

Are you involved in a church? Most have singles encounter groups.

Do you have hobbies that have social interaction?

And as others have asked, what age are you...for that matter the ages of these women you meet? I didn't discover non-dysfunctional women until they were well past their 20's!

Dee8go · #13 12-19-2007, 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by John Doe

You ought to get dope-slapped for being that much of a kiss ass

Trying to get some brownie points . . . .

Zeus · #14 12-19-2007, 10:44 AM

Ah, advice about women is kind of like getting advice about what beer to drink. Plenty of opinions available, including my own.

Just make sure that the label isn't hiding any hidden ingredients and that the cap is sealed and hasn't been tampered with. If it has, that isn't the biggest deal - in fact, that can help out in terms of long-term enjoyment as long as the bottle was resealed gently - just make sure that there is still some fizz left in the contents. It also helps to increase the initial enjoyment of the beverage if it is encountered at the right temperature. You may not be sure if you want a lager, a stout, an ale or even a wheat beer, but keep your mind open and your spirits high and you may be surprised what life serves you.

They key is to realize when you've been served the right bottle. It helps when you've tried a few types before but in the end, if you are able to listen carefully, you'll hear your little voice shouting at you "I like this one, don't spill it!"

Good luck, stop stressing about it, let it come to you and enjoy yourself - you're young, get out there and giv'r!

Mistress · #15 12-19-2007, 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by TX76513

Good girls go to heaven, bad girls go everywhere

Damn Garmin....