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Old 09-22-2008, 12:43 AM
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So, she does not want to de anything for two weeks...

I went on vacation last week, and I decided to return on Friday instead of Saturday. On my way back, I called the women that I'm dating and told her I would be back a day early, and that I would love to do dinner. She said that she did not want to see me for two weeks as she could not see where things were going, and that she does not know what my deal is. I didn't know I had a deal. I think she is weirding out about the age thing. I'm going to have to have a conversation with her and figure out what is really going on. I asked her if I said the wrong thing etc etc, she said know. So, I guess I need to wait two weeks, very strange. No wonder she has ben divorced for fifthteen years! Really though she is a great fun women, and I hope we can work it out.

Meanwhile, I took my Volvo 740 turbo wagon on it's first camping trip.

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Old 09-22-2008, 05:56 AM
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Throw the fish back.. plenty more out there.
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Old 09-22-2008, 07:45 AM
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The problem is you went on vacation without her.
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Old 09-22-2008, 08:40 AM
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Hmmm ... grounded for two weeks huh.
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Old 09-22-2008, 08:40 AM
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Forget her,she's giving you the ol'none too subtle heave-ho.

Perhaps you may try broadening your dating horizons geographically...to wit...

http://newyork.craigslist.org/wch/w4m/850280634.html
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Old 09-22-2008, 08:46 AM
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Her comment now requires a conversation to see where her head is at - God knows what she's thinking, but I'm guessing she's pissed because she didn't go on vacation with you.
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Old 09-22-2008, 08:51 AM
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You went on vacation. You didn't call her.
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Old 09-22-2008, 09:11 AM
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She's coming around to the realization this thing ain't gonna last. Or maybe she thinks you want a more permanent or steady relationship than she does. Maybe her girlfriends are talking her out of it. She's got how many years on you? 10 or 15? Move on.
If a woman ever told me to wait two weeks to call, fuggetaboutit!!

IMBroke said it...throw that fish back.
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Old 09-22-2008, 10:02 AM
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Throw the fish back.. plenty more out there.
X2. Also she may just need to air her brain out. There are times I just can't deal with people and need some down time.
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Old 09-22-2008, 10:21 AM
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Maybe you knocked her up, and she is mad at you!!!
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Old 09-22-2008, 10:38 AM
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Forget her,she's giving you the ol'none too subtle heave-ho.

Perhaps you may try broadening your dating horizons geographically...to wit...

http://newyork.craigslist.org/wch/w4m/850280634.html
can you say basket case?
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Old 09-22-2008, 10:39 AM
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Her comment now requires a conversation to see where her head is at - God knows what she's thinking, but I'm guessing she's pissed because she didn't go on vacation with you.

I invited her.
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Old 09-22-2008, 10:48 AM
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I invited her.
That's it Dude...Most women cannot be direct about it,always try to cushion the letdown,typical.

Most divorced chicks are terribly hurt and confused anyway,I'm not saying damaged goods but their expectations are rather a tad unrealistic.

She'll likely go back to bashing men over lattes with her coven of harpies,while still searching for what does not exist in mortal form.
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Old 09-22-2008, 10:59 AM
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Experience tells her that those May-September relationships culminate to nothing more than an extended fling at best.

Your absence gave her time to mull over it, and that realization has made her despondent.

Giving her two weeks just gives her time to refuel and get over you...if you want otherwise, I wouldn't honor her wish...insist on seeing her.
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Old 09-22-2008, 11:03 AM
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I invited her.
Camping is fun until you turn around 30, then your back locks up from sleeping in those wretched sleeping bags. Being the ***** to 3,000 mosquitos loses its allure around that time as well.

Place yourself back into circulation immediately.


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