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Old 11-29-2009, 06:14 PM
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Think that I have met the one, but do not want to go to far to fast.

I have met one of the sweetest women that I could have. I really enjoy her company as she does mine. However, I'm not completly sure how she feels. I don't why I don't ask, but I just have not. I'm thinking about asking her what she is doing on new years eve? i don't know. Most importantly I respect her and she respects me. So, I don't want to move to fast for her or what ever, but think she should know how I feel.

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Old 11-29-2009, 07:02 PM
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How many dates have you gone on?
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Old 11-29-2009, 07:06 PM
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Then don't go to fast. Ask her and hope she says yes- and then play it slow- but not snail pace. If she says no then wait for the next chance with her. If she's the one that chance will come.
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Old 11-29-2009, 08:39 PM
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It's tough man it really is. For me I always end up seeming to ask for example my last two girlfriends:

"You know Audrey, you're really sweet and I enjoy being around you." *holds hand* - Now sure this could be taken akwardly depending on the type of girl, but she was a doll. I've never meet a woman so friendly and kind as her.

The same thing went down with Hilary. It really just takes the ability to ask. Make sure you're close with her though. My poor roommate jumped the gun a bit on his last crush with this and I felt really bad!

I feel like asking a girl out is one of the hardest things I've ever done. I'd rather go in front of a crowd of 10,000 people and give a speech. At least then I have a teleprompter or piece of paper to reference to.
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Old 11-29-2009, 09:00 PM
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Its not easy but if you want to go out with a classy lady you usually will have to ask her out.

Best of luck with her.

You cannot succeed if you are paralysed with fear of failure, so just ask her out.
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Old 11-29-2009, 09:57 PM
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Hey man, Pray about it, I did 28 years ago and I am glad I did. We have three children and five grandchildren.
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Old 11-30-2009, 03:20 AM
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ahh....grasshopper, you must act quickly,,a connect like that is what all us other single dudes look for. its all part of the game. if you go slow she might slip away. ask her out and start the ball rolling downhill, oopps, i mean start the ball rolling. lol jst go for it, shes only gonna say yes or no.
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Old 11-30-2009, 08:16 AM
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I agree, asking her out on a date isn't moving too fast at all.
New Years eve?? Ask her what she's doing next weekend!

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Old 11-30-2009, 08:28 AM
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I agree, asking her out on a date isn't moving too fast at all.
New Years eve?? Ask her what she's doing next weekend!

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Well, the holidays can make new starts a little uneasy.
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Old 11-30-2009, 08:44 AM
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I have met one of the sweetest women that I could have. I really enjoy her company as she does mine. However, I'm not completly sure how she feels. I don't why I don't ask, but I just have not. I'm thinking about asking her what she is doing on new years eve? i don't know. Most importantly I respect her and she respects me. So, I don't want to move to fast for her or what ever, but think she should know how I feel.
You haven't been out yet and you think she's "the one?"
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Old 11-30-2009, 09:26 AM
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Old 11-30-2009, 09:48 AM
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stick it in her dumper

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Old 11-30-2009, 09:51 AM
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We have actually been out to dinner a few times, to a few movies and to the hardware store. She says that she is glad that I have come into my life, and that she feels confortable with me.
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Old 11-30-2009, 11:24 AM
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I'm glad you have found someone you really adore. I'm not quite sure if you have a question here or are simply making a statement about her/you??

I would continue asking her to spend time together...as much as possible.

Try to do little things together...like outdoor's work (mowing/raking, etc), cleaning around the house, going for walks, grocery shopping, etc. That is where you really take the step from going on a few dates to being boyfriend/girlfriend.

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