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Originally Posted by Vronsky
...forgot to mention this: don't get serious, don't give her presents, don't flatter her, don't say you like/love her...
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I agree strongly with the 'don't say you love her part'.
You can scare her off and also remove any 'challenge' for her.
Females enjoy the hunt as much as men do.
I don't agree with the rest though.
Nothing wrong with pointing out great things about her.
EVERYONE loves compliments. We always believe them.
( "hmmm.. how perceptive. I wonder why more people haven't noticed how wonderful I am?" )
People often remember a compliment, their entire life.
Point out her good qualities, both appearance wise and personality wise.
Throw in some light criticism, to maintain your credibility and keep her guessing.
Small gifts are fine, as long as you don't give her jewelry, or other 'romantic' gifts.
( "I saw this and thought of you. It was only $4 so you lucked out." )
You obviously don't have her hooked yet,
or you would see the signs...
but you have a chance!
Good luck.