I replaced both upper control arms, it was much easier than I expected, I used a pickle fork type puller, It wrecks the old grease boot, but who cares.
I bought 4 total upper inner bushings, but the UCAs come preloaded w/ them, now they are for sale.
Took about an hour including coffee break.
Hopefully this will fix my tire wear problem, but I still hafto get it prefessionally aligned.
Thanks to all who did this before and posted about their experiences.