The repair shop called me and told me that i need to come in. (you know its not good when that happens) along with the above they found the following wrong with the car.
1) TCM is the reason why it would pop into nuetral
2)at some time they used the front A arms to tie the car down and the bushings are blown out. The A arms may be tweaked a bit
3) ball joints
4) tie rod ends
5) steering stabilizer
6) rear stabilizer one of the links has been broken off
7)spare tire 15 inch will not fit front wheels
8) front rotors gone
9) front pads
10) rear pads
11)right front wheel is not round (repaired at some point)

the dealer said he will take it back. i am driving it back and then catching a flight home tomorrow. Worst thing about the whole deal was it was such a fun car to drive