Exactly. The quickest way to forget about her is to find another woman. It stings, it hurts. Don't brood over it.

Probably from before your time.

Dont talk of love,
But Ive heard the words before;
Its sleeping in my memory.
I wont disturb the slumber of feelings that have died.
If I never loved I never would have cried.
I am a rock,
I am an island.
....And a rock feels no pain;
And an island never cries

Paul Simon/Art Garfunkle