Originally Posted by engatwork

When I did this my blood pressure dropped from 190/110 to 127/79 and I can sleep soundly at night now.

Both boys have my phone # if they ever need to talk to me. Hopefully, they will hit bottom before they die from drug overdose or by totaling out a car. Keep in mind the oldest one has had two dui's before he turned 19 years old and he is still driving. The ex bailed him out of and paid all of his expenses during the trials which, in my opinion, taught him nothing. Just hope you are not the one in the way next time he is dui and causes a wreck.

Another issue is that the ex grills them to find out what all I have going on whenever they have been with me so it is probably well enough that the situation is as it is now.

I found out later that the youngest had taken 5 ambien the morning that the school said to come pick him up. It is just a matter of time until he od's on something as far as I can tell.