Sporty,

I don't mean to be blunt, but seriously, get an effing life. You are 20 years old. You don't really know if the sun is up or not emotionally, socially, and relationship wise. I don't mean to criticizes you but that light you see at the end of the tunnel is a bunch of us older guys looking back at you. We have mostly been there and done that and can tell you where a lot of the pot holes are on the road of life.

If that girl, at 23, is already playing those kinds of games with you imagine what she will be like at 33. You are too young and too inexperienced to get involved with someone like that. Take a look around your campus and see how many attractive, and more importantly intelligent, young ladies there are.

Play the field. Don't try to conquer and screw everything that is warm and vertical. Be nice, treat young ladies with respect and courtesy and look out for psychos.

I didn't get married until I was 35 and had my first child at 37. I am now 66 and don't regret any of it.