If I made my wife type this- would you pay more attention ? =)
Dont worry about women, if you want to give yourself a gift, buy a mercedes SL in good shape- even a cheap mercedes is cheaper than a woman. Take the time that you would spend dating/meeting someone to do some**thing**. Something like volunteering, ballroom dancing (lots of women there...), fixing stuff, community theatre, MBCA(?), tutoring/mentoring, local parks....
If you go out looking for "a woman" - thats exactly what you'll find - just a woman. If you spend your time doing something special, you WILL find someone special.

That being said, my best friend met his now-wife on eharmony, they have a 2 yr old and have been married 3 years or so by now....(they married after dating for 9mo...)

-John

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2009 Kia Sedona
2009 Honda Odyssey EX-L
12006 Jetta Pumpe Duse
(insert Mercedes here)

Husband, Father, sometimes friend =)