Most parts stores carry all of that stuff (at least here they do). If not, try your local home depot or lowes. Bolt extractors & penetrants aren't specific to the automotive field.

As far as fluid extractors go, I'd look at the mightyvac - holds 8.8L. This one is hand pumped, but they do make one that runs on shop air:

http://www.restockit.com/The-Fluid-Evacuator-Plus-(MIT7201).html?source=froogle&utm_source=googlebase&utm_medium=comparsionshopping&Bvar5=100F1&Bvar6=100F1&Bvar7=100F1&ci_src=14110944&ci_sku=MIT7201

I've never used one to extract oil (I have used them on other fluids), but that's because I had a lift and an oil catcher; much quicker.

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