I was never much on admiration from afar either.
I guess the question is if she is the one and it is for real is it worth getting another job?
If the answer is no then it is time to do what Layback says!
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[SIGPIC] Diesel loving autocrossing grandpa Architect. 08 Dodge 3/4 ton with Cummins & six speed; I have had about 35 benzes. I have a 39 Studebaker Coupe Express pickup in which I have had installed a 617 turbo and a five speed manual.

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..I also have a 427 Cobra replica with an aluminum chassis.