She clearly needed to submit to a number of things, discipline, education, rigor, delayed gratfication, embracing wisdom & maturity, etc.

We raise 3 generation of people of people living 25+ years as adolescence who then want others to solve their problems.

The obsessive preoccupation with self, its aggrandizement and appetites is NOT the sign of adulthood, which is in itself a submission, a subsuming of one aspect of self to develop another aspect of self.

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