Your PDF looks like a diagram for a 126 gasser. but item #51 is the vent check valve, and that is the area where the vent is located on the Diesels.
I just went through this on a 82 240D a few days ago, had pressure when releasing the fuel cap. removed the vent check valve and the Bell piece. bell open, but blowing through the Vent check was difficult. so reamed the little sucker with a screwdriver. blows good now, both ways.
CJ* sorry to hear about your tank imploding. If it wont expand with air, finding one in the PNP`s is impossible. they punch them full of holes. best is to look in CL or locally for someone parting out a 300D with a 21 Gallon tank.
Here are your links
What happens when a tank vent gets clogged.
Fuel Tank Vent Warning
Charlie