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Originally Posted by Philsdaughter
Hello everyone,
I am full of grief and pain as I type this. Last night I kept calling his work line to listen to his voice on his answering machine and when I called this afternoon I saw that it had been transfered. I decided to check here and was moved by the kind words from all of you. I cannot for a second express what an amazing man my dad was. The man who cared so much about your parts was the man I watched my whole life live and love people in that very way. Every ridiculous worry I had or dumb thing I came to him with he greeted with concern, love and like you all have noticed, made my problems his problems. I have to say he cared so much about all of you. I used to laugh at him as he went on and on about all the wonderful people he got to talk to on a daily basis and got so much joy out of helping others. My grandfather used to say my dad "never met a stranger". That was a statement I never understood as a kid but now know is true. He was so geniune, so loving and so wonderful. What you saw is what you got, nothing fake. He was exactly the same way at home as he was on that phone with his customers. I can't even breathe to picture a world without him in it. He was my confidant, my rock, who I turned to when I hurt. I am hurting now and he is gone. Everyone would always say "Phil would give you the shirt off his back" and one day he actually did, I kid you not. I watched him take his shirt off and give it to someone who didn't have one and it was cold. Thank you, all of you truly for your kind words. I needed to see that others loved him as much as he loved you all.
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And Im glad that you did. Im sure as others see this they will pour in more words. I only did business with your father from 2002 onward, but from day 1 it was as if he knew me and what I needed for all time, like we went back for years. He truly was a remarkable guy, for as minimal that we ever knew him for in this small sliver of life that was MB parts. He loved it, we loved him, yet it was just such a small aspect of what makes life wonderful, and I can only imagine what a great guy he was when you knew him for real, in real life, above and beyond our small common thread of car parts.
So sorry for your loss, I can not imagine the sorrow you must feel, and just pray that you find comfort and hope in knowing just how loved your father was, and how much he helped so many in just this one element of life, let alone all the others that he surely did.